资料:Good listening is much more than being silent while the other person talks. To the contrary, people perceive the best listeners to be those who periodically ask questions that promote discovery and insight. These questions gently challenge old assumptions, but do so in a constructive way. Sitting there silently nodding does not provide sure evidence that a person is listening, but asking a good question tells the speaker the listener has not only heard what was said, but that they comprehended it well enough to want additional information. Good listening was consistently seen as a two-way dialog, rather than a one-way “speaker versus hearer” interaction. The best conversations were active.
Good listening included interactions that build a person's self-esteem. The best listeners made the conversation a positive experience for the other party. which doesn't happen when the listener is passive (or, for that matter, critical!) Good listeners made the other person feel supported and conveyed confidence in them. Good listening was characterized by the creation of a safe environment in which issues and differences could be discussed openly.
Good listening was seen as a cooperative conversation. In these interactions, feedback flowed smoothly in both directions with neither party becoming defensive about comments the other made. By contrast, poor listeners were seen as competitive — as listening only to identify errors in reasoning or logic, using their silence as a chance to prepare their next response. That might make you an excellent debater, but it doesn't make you a good listener. Good listeners may challenge assumptions and disagree, but the person being listened to feels the listener is trying to help, not wanting to win an argument
The main purpose of the passage is to____.
本题考查文意理解。
【关键词】main purpose of the passage
【主题句】第1段Good listening is much more than being silent while the other person talks. 好的倾听远比在别人说话时保持沉默更重要。
【解析】由首句主题句引出以下段落,分别介绍一个好的倾听者会怎么样做,因此本文的目的是教读者做一个好的倾听者。选项A意为“告诉读者成为一个好的倾听者”,选项B意为“分析一个好的倾听者的行为”,选项C意为“解释如果一个演讲者说的很无聊会发生什么”,选项D意为“鼓励听众帮助其他人以新的眼光看待谈话”。
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